90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days personality Vanja Grbic has captured viewers’ attention through two tumultuous relationships during season 7. Interestingly, instead of placing blame on her two romantic interests, Božo Vrdoljak and Josko Luketin, the true source of her heartbreak seems to dwell within Vanja herself. In her own words, she invited comparison by labeling herself as the “Jill of all trades,”boasting of her four jobs while engaging with a man who was neither employed nor reciprocating her feelings. Here, we witness how her overconfidence becomes a double-edged sword, leading her down a path toward emotional turmoil.
In an ironic twist of fate, Vanja appears to have not learned from her past with Božo. Her encounter with Josko signaled a repeat of irrational expectations, fueled by an unchecked ego. While self-reliance and confidence are admirable traits, Vanja’s downfall stemmed from placing undue expectations on men she hardly knew, leaving her blind to her own flaws. Sadly, her inflated self-perception interferes with her ability to acknowledge her shortcomings.
Vanja Flew Across the Globe for a Man Who Ignored Her Calls
Vanja Had Expectations That Božo Would Fall for Her
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After connecting online for six months, Vanja and Božo’s relationship had already undergone a split. Božo ghosted her initially and later communicated his desire to rekindle things with an ex-girlfriend. Yet, Vanja, wrapped in her bravado, anticipated his return, which occurred, ironically reinforcing her pride as she took him back. She perceived this reunion as a victory over the ex, fueling her belief that marriage was destined—even if that wasn’t mirrored in Božo’s feelings. Her unrealistic expectations clouded her judgment, leading her to dismiss the clear signals indicating that Božo was pulling away.
Ignoring the evident warnings, Vanja flew to Croatia regardless of Božo’s lack of responsiveness. Even when he presented her with a plant he’d salvaged from a dumpster, she clung to the belief that she could ignite feelings in him that he had openly claimed he lacked. Her inflated pride dictated that she would not leave the relationship as a rejected party, inadvertently leading her to craft a narrative in which she could claim victory.
Vanja Persisted in Her Croatia Vacation
Vanja Believed She’d Quickly Find a New Partner
With the harsh reality of her relationship with Božo shattered, Vanja found herself in need of a new romantic interest to replace him. Her natural instinct resisted accepting her loss, compelling her to re-enter dating apps during her vacation to Croatia. Although an early encounter led to a swift rejection, she soon met Josko, who had a striking physique—and a one-year-old child. This unexpected factor initiated a whirlwind of thoughts concerning her potential role as a stepmother, showcasing her eagerness to excel in such a position.
Vanja Anticipated Josko Would Abandon His Life in Croatia for Her
Is Josko’s Child Irrelevant to Vanja?
Despite the odds, Josko ended the relationship with Vanja just weeks after their relationship began, a swift conclusion seemingly influenced by the pace at which their connection had accelerated. Tragically, Vanja’s perspective overlooked the fact that rebounds should remain just that. She mistakenly believed that Josko would leave his established life and a child for a woman he had just met. Her inability to empathize with the complexities of Josko’s situation—such as visa challenges and responsibilities—underscores a concerning self-centered approach. This unfortunate trajectory suggests that the breakup may have been deserved in light of her lack of awareness.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
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