Fans Slam Sarper’s Controlling Behavior Towards Shekinah on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6, which premiered last month, has captured significant attention due to the dramatic storylines featuring couples navigating life abroad with their partners.

Episode 12 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6, released on September 16, showcased Sarper and Shekinah attending therapy. During the session, they discussed the challenges in their relationship.

Shekinah explained that they had a conflict over a vanity that Sarper wanted to purchase, which she opposed. Sarper acknowledged his controlling tendencies and expressed anger when Shekinah dismissed his preference regarding the vanity.

Shekinah revealed that Sarper was so enraged that he yelled at her, confiscated her phone, and even yanked out some of her hair.

Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way took to X (formerly Twitter) to express their concerns about Sarper’s behavior, condemning him for his abusive actions toward Shekinah.

“Sarper is more than a control freak,”stated one fan.

“‘He grabbed the phone out of my hand & pulled some of my hair out.’ Sarper: ‘Not intentionally…’ This abuser has yet to apologize for his actions. Shekinah, leave before it’s too late,”wrote another user.

“So what Sarper is saying is he wants Shekinah to be submissive,”commented a third user.

“No therapy can change an adult man. Shekinah, please escape this abusive relationship; Sarper won’t change,”another fan urged.

Viewers also criticized Sarper’s confession about not liking it when Shekinah asserted her own opinions.

“Not Sarper admitting he doesn’t like when Shekinah has her own thoughts,”one viewer remarked.

“Sarper has assaulted Shekinah & he sits in therapy claiming to be the victim. Can someone get this man off my screen?”said another.

“Sarper seems like the type to do whatever he wants and cause harm to those around him, only scrambling to fix things when he feels threatened. He isn’t truly sorry,”one user posted.

“Shekinah doesn’t realize she is risking her safety. Sarper lacks self-control. If he took your phone and pulled your hair, things could escalate next time. It never improves,”noted another fan.

Therapy Session of Sarper and Shekinah in Episode 12 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6

In Episode 12 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Sarper brought Shekinah to therapy in hopes of resolving their ongoing issues, making Shekinah believe he genuinely wanted to work on their relationship.

During the therapy session, Sarper initially acknowledged his controlling nature and his tendency to overreact when things don’t go his way.

When asked by the therapist about the root of his anger regarding Shekinah’s refusal to purchase the vanity, Sarper admitted he lost his temper when he perceived she was ignoring him. He stated he recognized Shekinah as a strong woman, but felt unloved when she pushed back against him.

Shekinah countered that it was unhealthy for Sarper to have issues with her opinions and noted that instead of being supportive during her moments of vulnerability, he responded with anger, a situation that needed resolution.

The therapist advised Sarper that he needed to acknowledge Shekinah’s feelings if he wished to bring happiness into their relationship, while he defended himself by asserting it stemmed from a fear of losing her.

New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6 air every Monday at 8 PM on TLC.

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