Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner’s Cancer Diagnosis: How It May Have Led to His Divorce from Theresa Nist

The Golden Bachelor Star Gerry Turner’s Cancer Diagnosis and Divorce

Gerry Turner, famed as the first lead on ABC’s innovative series, The Golden Bachelor, has candidly shared a life-altering cancer diagnosis that emerged shortly after his marriage to Theresa Nist. This shocking revelation may have played a significant role in their separation just three months later. At 72, Gerry captured the hearts of many as he became the face of a groundbreaking show focused on the romantic journeys of senior citizens, with Theresa, a 70-year-old day trader from New Jersey, vying for his affection.

The pair quickly became a fan favorite, embodying the hope of second chances in love. Both being widows, they became engaged during the season finale and tied the knot in a spectacular ceremony broadcasted on ABC. However, their fairy tale came to an abrupt end, raising questions about what led to their divorce.

Disappointment Over Gerry & Theresa’s Split

The announcement of Gerry and Theresa’s divorce in April shocked fans, who predominantly directed their anger at Gerry. Viewers were disappointed, believing he had not been entirely transparent about his history in relationships before stepping into the spotlight as The Golden Bachelor. Gerry had previously claimed to be single since the passing of his late wife, Toni Turner, in 2018, yet it was later uncovered that he had recently ended a significant relationship.

This background laid the groundwork for public scrutiny, and many unjustly blamed Gerry for the dissolution of his marriage with Theresa. In retrospect, it seems unfair to single him out, as both partners bear responsibility when a relationship falters. Although Gerry and Theresa cited difficulty in agreeing on a living arrangement—he in Indiana and she in New Jersey—as the primary reason for their breakup, the truth is more complex. Neither was willing to disrupt their lives, especially after initially meeting on a reality show.

A Life-Changing Diagnosis

In a recent interview with People, Gerry opened up about the challenges he faced following their wedding. Contrary to what many perceived, underlying health issues were reshaping his priorities.

“As Theresa and I were trying very hard to find our lifestyle and where we were going to live and how we were going to make our life work, I was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer.”

After undergoing treatment for a shoulder injury, routine blood work unveiled a significant issue, leading to a diagnosis of slowly progressing bone marrow cancer. This condition, described by the Mayo Clinic, transforms normal blood cells into cancerous variants that invade the bone marrow.

Initially informed that he was dealing with a blood disorder, Gerry shared this news with Theresa just weeks after their wedding in February. The cancer diagnosis in March shocked him, shifting his focus to spending time with his family—a priority he didn’t want to compromise, despite his desire to nurture his relationship with Theresa.

Reflecting on Cherished Moments with Theresa

Even amidst the turmoil, Gerry has fondly remembered his time with Theresa. He expressed his deep gratitude for the whirlwind romance that their relationship represented. “That glamour and starstruck, whirlwind time was really a cherished memory,”Gerry acknowledged, highlighting the heartfelt moments they shared together during their brief engagement and marriage.

The Impact of Gerry’s Diagnosis

Gerry discussed how his cancer diagnosis fundamentally altered his outlook on relationships and life. With two daughters and two granddaughters whom he dearly loves, the diagnosis steered Gerry’s priorities towards family and health, making it increasingly difficult to concentrate on his new marriage.

“Hopefully they’ll look at things a little bit differently, that maybe it wasn’t quite a rash, fast decision that people thought. That there was something else going on.”

Now, Gerry is devoted to his health and cherishing his family connections. Although his journey on The Golden Bachelor did not culminate in lasting love, he finds joy in the extraordinary experiences it brought him. By embracing the philosophy of “Live Like You Were Dying,” inspired by Tim McGraw’s song, Gerry is determined to make the most of every moment going forward.

About Gerry Turner

Name	Gerry Turner
Age	73 years old
Birthday	August 7, 1951
Zodiac Sign	Leo
First Marriage	Toni Turner, 43 years
Second Marriage	Theresa Nist, 3 months
Children	2 daughters
Grandchildren	2 granddaughters